YOU don't deserve someone who comes back.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2016/04/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/

I used to wonder about people coming back after they’ve decided to leave. I used to wait for the day they come back and realize that they messed up or realize that life is miserable without me. But then I realized that better than all this mess is someone who never leaves.

Someone who never leaves when you hit bumps in the road, someone who never leaves when the rain starts falling down on you, someone who never leaves no matter how many other people are trying to get their attention, someone who chooses to stay every single day.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you tell them about the things you did that you’re ashamed of and the things that happened to you that you promised not to tell anyone. When you tell them about the things you really don’t like about yourself and the things you hated about your past. You deserve someone who never leaves no matter how dark it gets.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you tell them how much you love them, how much you really want to make them happy and how they make you feel something no else made you feel before. How they are special to you and how you really just want to spend your days looking at them and spend your nights sleeping in their arms.

You deserve someone who stays no matter how passionately you display your love and how fearlessly you show your emotions. You deserve someone who is not afraid of the way you love them.

You deserve someone who never leaves even if they found a better job or made more money or bought a fancier car. Someone who never leaves when they’re at their best, when they can get anyone they want but still choose you, when they don’t even care about exploring all these other ‘options’ to realize your worth because they know what they have and they know that you are one of a kind. You deserve someone who makes you believe that some people can stay.

You deserve someone who never leaves when things are not that exciting, when life becomes overwhelming for you to handle, when you are tired all the time, when you’re lost and confused and don’t know what to do next, when you keep doubting yourself and your capabilities. You deserve someone who reminds you of how you survived, someone who reminds you of your strength, someone who reminds you of your greatness and someone who reminds you that even though you can make it on your own, they want to be there, they don’t want you to be alone this time and they want to fight your battles with you. 

Even though we all have that one person we wish could come back, what we really should wish for is someone who never leaves. Someone who left before could leave again but someone who could’ve left but decided to stay is exactly the kind of person you need to be with – is exactly the kind of person you deserve to be with.  

Nabasa ko lang yan sa isang link sa Facebook. Siguro nga, ganun. Mas deserve natin yung taong di tayo iiwan. Kesa dun sa taong gusto nating bumalik. Dahil kung minsan ka ng iniwan nung taong bumalik, di malayong iwan ka niya ulit.

Naranasan ko na yan. Meron akong naging ex. Hahaha! Iniwan na niya ako before. Binalikan niya yung ex niya. Tapos nung nagkabalikan kami, saka ko lang nalaman na kaya niya pala ako iniwan kasi binalikan niya ex niya. Hahaha! Naglalandian pa sila sa facebook. Tapos ng nalaman ko, bigla niyang binura yung conversation nila. Lol. Nakakatawa. Kami pa, naglalandian na sila. Kami pa, kinakausap niya pa yun. Tapos nung kami pa before, wala na daw siyang connect sa buong family nung ex niya. Nung nagbreak kami, biglang makikita ko friends ulit sila sa facebook ng mom and brother nung ex niya. Wow lang! Hahaha! Dapat di ko na talaga siya binalikan. Kasi naaawa ako sa sarili ko. Nung naging girlfriend ko siya at iniwan niya ako, di naman ako bumalik sa mga ex ko. Ano yun? Parang rebound? Hahaha! Parang naiisip ko nga yan kay Jennylyn and Luis. Lol. Eh kasi, db before si Angel na and Luis. Tapos nagbreak. Tapos naging si Luis at Jennylyn. Tapos nagbreak. Nagkabalikan si Angel at Luis. Ako? Naiisip ko? Tangina! Ano ako? Ginamit mong pangselos para magkabalikan kayo? Or rebound mo lang ako? Hahaha! Ako nga, ginawa lang rebound. I know! Kaya yang mga yan, dapat d na yan binabalikan. Di ko naman sinasabi na wala silang karapatang mahalin. Wala silang karapatang magmahal. Deserve din nila mahalin. Pero di na satin na minsan na nilang iniwan. Ano yun? Pano pag naging asawa mo na yan? Tapos na-late ka ng uwi at di ka nagpaalam, kahit super traffic talaga, iiwan ka na agad? Lol. Ganun sila eh.

Ikaw nga nag-tyaga sakanila kahit na anong ginagawa nila. Meron pa nga, working hours db dapat 8hours lang? Office yun ah. Yung kanya, from 8am hanggang 11pm. Hahaha! Pero iniwan ko ba siya? Nung panahon na nagkakaron siya ng problema? Iniwanan ko ba siya? Kahit na bwisit na bwisit na ako sa araw araw niyang ginagawa na tinutulugan niya ako ng di nag-goodnight?! Iniwanan ko ba siya? Hahaha! Lol. Pero di na para ipamukha ko sakanya yun. Wala naman siyang alam. Ano? Ibabalik niya? Mas masakit lahat ng ginagawa ko? At nagawa ko? Ano ka? Timbangan? Titimbangin mo lahat? Lol. Pero seryoso. Salamat sa link na to at sa gumawa ng blog na to. Okay eh. Naipapaliwanag ang lahat. Pero may mga bagay na dapat balikan at hindi dapat balikan. Dapat alam lang natin kung sino ang dapat balikan, at sino ang hindi dapat balikan. Marami akong natutunan sa ex kong ginawa sakin yan. Kaya okay na lang din. Wag tayo magsisi. Walang dapat pagsisihan sa nakaraan. Lahat yun ay naging decision natin sa nakaraan. Kaya may ngayon at bukas eh para mabago ang mga naging maling decision natin noon.